When you talk about any relation, it comes with a set standard and expectation, and you connect to it immediately. You tend to find similarities, whether it is mother’s love, father’s affection or sibling rivalry, but the self chosen relationship of love with a partner breaks the rules of standardization!
Type2: Both partners are ultimate bore and cheesy, and tend to think life is all about them being together.
Type3: The open relationship types (I really don’t understand the need for this one)
Type4: The ever fighting and complaining ones
Type5: They are both cool and have their individuality intact.. And you wished you could be like them
People say “love ” keeps the world revolving, it certainly does. People fight, cry and some even die for it! Interacting with friends caught my attention to this particular friend who found it difficult to cope with the responsibilities of calling the partner as a form of compulsion and not mood. Another one complained of unduly feeling responsible for mood swings of the partner and felt obliged to listen to the ugly shouting (Type4). Friend3 thought he owed every detail of his life to his girlfriend and felt guilty hiding even his underwear color from her (the Type2)! Friend4 hid everything from his girlfriend; he felt it was unnecessary for a guy to share things with girls! Certainly the vice- versa was not acceptable to him (the Type1 kind!). Friend5 was inexperienced in reciprocated love, but certainly had huge opinions- strange! Love is not to be underestimated and flaunted by everyone- its too risky and often offensive.. lol
The Type5 is worth the risks and it breaks the rules of typical love stories. Partners let the other partner breathe, have their self respect intact, aren’t imposing and indeed supporting and of course practical. Sounding dreamy? Trust me, 1 in 1000 people are real. They know stories in novels are just stories and look beyond the horizon! These lovers are real time and don’t always expect you to be reminding you that they exist, it comes naturally; they understand completely when it doesn’t work at the end, realizing fully that something else mattered more and that at-least they helped each other grow individually. They rejoice the life they spent and are happy the way it was meant to be.
Decide where you belong and remember, love helps your world revolve around, but it’s not the only reason why your life is revolving!
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